Sex Positions: 3 Books in 1: Sex Positions for Couples, Kama Sutra and Sexy Games for Couples. The complete guide to Transform Your Sexual Life and Improve Your Relationship. (Sex for Couples Book 4) by Mia Knox

Author:Mia Knox [Knox, Mia]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2020-08-13T00:00:00+00:00

Chapter 9.

How To Use Dirty Talk

Dirty talk can be good for any sexual relationship, from married couples to hookups. It’s a great way to put some spice back into a relationship that has perhaps stagnated due to physical changes, children, work, busyness, or life in general. It’s also perfect for turning up the heat with someone you’ve just started seeing. But dirty talk can be daunting, especially if you’ve never done it before. The things people say to each other (or think about each other) when they are turned on aren’t things that are generally appropriate to say in public, so it’s unlikely that you have a lot of practice saying them. And, just like any part of sex, what one person likes might not be what another person likes. When it comes to dirty talk, communication is key, both before, during, and after sex.

If you’re brand new to dirty talk, a good way to start is simply to verbalize what you are already thinking or feeling. You’ve probably felt a strong desire for a partner, admired a physical characteristic of a partner, had an orgasm, or enjoyed a sexual act at some point--all without saying anything. Dip your toe into the world of talking dirty by telling your partner how you are feeling and what you are desiring. For the examples, you could try saying “I’m getting so turned on,” “You have such an amazing butt, baby,” “I’m getting close,” and “I love what you’re doing to me right now.”

You can talk dirty in person, but you can also make good use of technology. For example, send a suggestive text to your partner as they are finishing up their day at work so they will be excited to come home to you and have some fun. Imagine their surprise when they pick up their phone and, rather than a message asking them to pick up some milk on their way home, they have a text from you saying, “I can’t wait to taste you on my lips.” If you’re feeling really daring, you could even call them up for a little dirty conversation, perhaps asking what color panties they are wearing or telling them how much you’re looking forward to taking off their necktie.

Don’t hesitate to communicate with your partner about dirty talk. A conversation about what each of you prefers or is interested in before any dirty talk starts is a perfect way to avoid any awkward instances in the bedroom where one of you says something that is a definite turn-off for the other person. Some people prefer more clinical terms for their body parts, like “penis” or “vagina,” while others find those terms to be too medical and would rather use “dick,” “cock,” “pussy,” “cunt,” or others. Find out what your partner likes and use their preferred term. The same rule applies for other dirty language. Some people are very uncomfortable with terms like “whore,” “slut,” or “daddy” during sex, while for others this type of dominant and submissive language is a huge turn-on.

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